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Hello Everyone,
My name is Jenny, I am 60 years old and have had JCA for 50 years. I have been married to my dear hubby for 40 years and we are still like the two kids that married so long ago, he is my rock, when I'm in a hard place, and there have been a few of those along the way! Sadly I do not have a family myself , but am a very happy auntie to quite a few. I lived in Hong Kong for a few years in the late 1970's, sadly interrupted by the need to get my hips replaced back home. Was a patient of Dr. Barbara Ansell for at least 25 years, and miss her mightily. Wondering if there is anyone out there to reminisce with, good and bad.
Jennyx
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Hi Jennie A very warm welcome to the forum where you will find lots of people who will be able to reminisce with you as well as offer advice and encouragement. I am so sorry that you have suffered for so long and I am sure you have had a lot of ups and downs along the way. I am 58 and have been diagnosed 6 years but have been fortunate to be on drugs that are keeping it under control at the moment unlike a lot of poor people on this forum. However I am always amazed at the upbeat attitude that people have and it is great to have a forum like this where you can come and have a moan or ask a question and there will always be someone who knows where you are coming from. The NRAS helpline is very helpful too. Look forward to hearing more from you. Best wishes from a very windy but dry at the moment Herne Bay!! Sue
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Hi Jenny, and a very warm welcome to the NRAS forum. Like you, I have been married to Nick for 40 years, and do not know where I would be without him. I hope you enjoy the forum - I was glad when I found it, a few years ago now. I`m Kathleen, diagnosed over 6 years ago now, currently on humira and various other meds. We live oop north in Durham. Do keep posting, Kathleen x
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Hi Sue,
Thank you so much for your lovely welcome. I am very glad to be a part of things here, and also to be back supporting the Arthritis cause. After having living on NSAIDs for most of my life, for the past couple of years and after quite a lot of complications and surgery, I have been trying to find a new drug combo that works for me. Not yet succeeded, but ever hopeful. From a very showery and windy (yuk!) Bracknell , send my love. Jennyxxxxxx
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Hi Kathleen, It is so good to be sent such a warm welcome from yourself, and I most certainly will be posting , it is really good to chat with others, who may perhaps not have the same history, but have something in common. Speak again. Jennyxx
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Hi Jenny,
Welcome to the forum but sorry to hear you have had RA from such a young age. You'll get lots of support and advice on here. I am 60, married to Ian for 33 years, we have a 23 year old daughter who at the moment is working in Canada. I have had RA for 11 years, now taking mtx and humira. I hope you can find a drug or mix of drugs very soon that works well for you. Looking forward to getting to know you.
Love Doreen xx
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Hi Doreen, Never have I had such a welcome on a forum before, thank you so much. I haven't tried Humira, but nearly everything else! I have been having a week's rest from everything, trying to get the right mix for me has been a bit of a nightmare, complicated by joint infections. About to start azathrioprine tomorrow and fingers crossed, I am a little nervous of side effects. Hope you are feeling well, and speak very soon.
Jennyxx
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Hi Jenny
A very warm welcome, great to you are here, you will always have much support and advice and no doubt will be able to help us here too ! So sorry to hear you have suffered for so much of your life, so good to know you have a wonderful hubby and family around you.
I am 56 and have only had RA for about three years, had fun and games for the first couple of years trying to find something to control the disease, but now on Cimzia, and doing very well. Hope you are able to get your medication sorted out, there are so many marvellous drugs now available to us.
Best wishes Julia xx
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Hi Julia,
I feel so spoiled with the welcomes I have received today. Thank you very much. Yes, I look forward to being of help to others, it is so rewarding, however I am so grateful for all of you, who give me support. I keep hearing of Cimzia, do you have an infusion or self- inject? I'm very limited to what I can be given now, because I had an infection in both a knee and hip replacement, which causes all sorts of difficulty. Always the optimist, take care. Jennyxx
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Joined: 5/28/2012 Posts: 665 Location: Newton Abbot
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Hi Jenny - I'm 54 and newly diagnosed with RA. I live in Devon with hubby and 4 teenage kids (who are stressing me out at the moment - teenagers yuch!!!). I've just started MTX and have just finished course of steroids, so my symptoms are pretty much in check at the moment and I have fingers crossed that it'll stay like this for as long as possible. Because I'm new to all this I don't understand all the abbreviations, so what is JCA? Best wishes Sylvia xx Be kinder than is necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle
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Hi, Sylvia,
Good to hear from you, JCA stands for juvenile chronic arthritis, and although I' m now 60, I am still classed as a juvenile! Only prob is I am not really feeling like a little'un!! There are so many types of rheumatoid arthritis classification these days. My disease was originally called Stills. Good luck with the family, summer hols and all that. Take care and keep in touch.
Jennyxxx
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hi Jenny,
a warm welcome from me.
such a long time you've had RA!! you must have been through so much, i found it so hard to come to terms with just over two years ago .. i am now 59.
i am petrified when starting a new drug, so totally sympathise, when i was diagnosed i lost over half a stone in the first week with the stress of it all.
i am currently taking Methotrexate, Hydroxy and Humira which has helped, although my bloods to fluctuate each month, so hoping i will stay on Humira as it's the one that has worked best for me.
i will have been married 40 years next weekend and it feels like yesterday when i remember meeting him which is scary!! also have a 30 year old Daughter long flown the nest.
do keep posting so we can get to know you,
Suzanne x
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Hi Suzanne,
Very nice to hear from you, it may sound really strange, but because I have had RA For the majority of my life, it is in a funny way easier to live with, because I cannot remember how things were before. I loved ballet and gymnastics as a child, and unfortunately, that all had to stop. However, after the initial illness was controlled, by aspirin, in those days, I had a fairly normal childhood, going to scholl and college etc. I had my hips replaced at 27' and it was a revelation for me, no pain!!!! It was in my mid thirties that knees and hips started really deteriorating, and I have had a lot of problems in the last five years. I try to keep on top the things and have been trying umpteen drugs of the modern kind, and am still searching. I start Azathioprine today, and fingers crossed. Glad to hear Humira works for you, and long may it do so. Take lots of care and please keep in touch.
Jennyxx
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Hi Jenny
A great pleasure to meet you on the forum and a big welcome!
So sorry you had JCA at such a tender age though, even though you sound very philosophical about it. You have truly grown up with it.
I have had RA for 40 years, diagnosed in my mid 20's. Also coeliac and Addisons. I can share reminiscences of Barbara Ansell! She wasn't my consultant, but worked closely with my rheumatologist/immunologist Michael Denman who I saw at Northwick Park Hospital from 1982 to the 1990's when he retired. A really lovely, brilliant man. I met Dr Ansell on ward rounds at 8am when she charged down the corridors ready to squeeze her young patients' tender joints. We called her 'Sergeant Major' but she cared about her patients' so fiercely. They were a brilliant team. Were you a patient at Taplow? I have a friend who nursed there and remembers Barbara Ansell vividly as she was a bit of a legend. I only went there for outpatient services, splints etc.
I think they moved most of the children's care to Great Ormond Street eventually. I really missed being with the younger crowd when I was an in-patient.
Like you I have been through the mill with lots of ops and drugs. Also had sepsis in joint replacements which has reared its ugly head again even though the offending joint has been removed, which messes up the biologics treatment.
I also have a very wonderful husband (43 years now but we met at school!) and lucky enough to have had 3 children, with 3 grandchildren now. Our eldest son and daughter sadly have autoimmune conditions which i feel pretty bad about (hubby's mum had severe RA too). But they all say they have lovely lives and seem very happy, so I feel extremely blessed.
I do wish you all the very best of luck with azathioprine and hope it works for you without any repercussions. It is one of the few I haven't tried!
By the way we had the picture behind you in your photo (Aristide Bruant?) since our first home together and our daughter liked it so much she has it now!
Take good care Jenny, Lizx
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Hi Jenny. I'm Naomi, aged 47 and I live in Devon with my partner Nick and my 4 hens. I have one son who lives and works in Taiwan and he travels a lot in the eastern countries such as China, Japan, Korea and the Philippines. I was only diagnosed last September so am quite new to all this still. Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry you've had JCA from a young age but, looking on the bright side I'm sure you have a lot of experience and wisdom to offer. I look forward to getting to know you better.
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Hi Liz,
So good to here from you, and we share quite a few common experiences. I know for many, Dr Ansell was like marmite, but for me, from really quite fearing her as a child, to admiring her so much as an adult, she really did make me cope with my disease, be strong, and yet she was so kind and supportive with anything one tried to do. I used to stay at Taplow, for two weeks starting Boxing day every year between ages 10 to 14, for physiotherapy and testing drugs. I remember, I used to feel so bad, because all the children used to get Christmas presents round a huge tree, on Boxing Day, and I was given presents too, when I had already had such a lovely Christmas Day at home. She believed in surgery to give us the best possible chance, and I'll always be thankful for all her care, she knew and never forgot any of her patients. I too, went to Northwick park in the 70's and 80's , where I had my first hip replacements and it's possible I may have met Dr. Denman, but my memory is a bit dodgy these days. Actually my consultant, Dr. David Joel, at the Nuffield Orthopaedic, Oxford, was a registrar there around that time. Unfortunately, I too, have had joint infections in the last 5 years, in hip and knee. I would love to know how your second infection has been treated, and are you on long term antibiotics. I would love to start etanacept again but am really frightened, these last few years have knocked my confidence a bit. Well, enough, of the medical history, I could go on and on, perhaps another time. Yes, it's Aristide Bruant in the background, I love Toulouse Lautrec and have had that print since 1980, when I returned from Hong Kong, it now hangs in the room that's my husband's office, where that picture was taken.
I think I have rambled enough for now, look forward to keeping in touch.
Jennyxx
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Hi Naomi,
I am really glad I joined Nras, I am really enjoying hearing from so many lovely, interesting people. Thank you so much for writing to me. Have you managed to get out to the Far East, I can recommend it. I lived for two years in Hongkong, but have returned for holidays many times since, the last being 2010. I really would love to be travelling again, but at the mo, I can't imagine how I managed the flight! It must have been a bit of a shock to be diagnosed with RA, so recently, I do hope you have it under control, do let me know how your getting on, look forward to chatting.
Jennyxx
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Hi Jenny - thanks for such inspiring words. I'm sorry that you've had to go through so much, but clearly you haven't let this stop you from having a very full and happy life. My husband and I like to travel too and when I got my diagnosis I was a bit alarmed to think that I might not be able to go away as often. So it's good to know that even with JCA from such a young age, it's still possible to be adventurous - I guess it's necessary to adapt and get organised and never give up! We have family out in Australia and hubby would like to go visit - I didn't fancy such a long flight when my symptoms were uncontrolled but now I'm optimistic that I can get it sorted sufficiently and can start planning again. Meanwhile, we've booked to go for a few days to Paris (without the tragic teenagers!!!!!) and I intend to spend as long as possible in the Musee D'Orsay with all the impressionist artists! Cheers - Sylvia xx Be kinder than is necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle
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Hi Sylvia, I am up early this morning for me! The washing machine decided to give up the ghost yesterday, and I am awaiting the delivery of the new one, more expense! It was so good to find your message there when I signed in. I would love to get to Australia too, it's one of my neighbours favourite destinations. I am so envious of your trip to gay Paris, I hope you and your hubby have the most wonderful time. Let me know how it goes. Happy travelling, Bon Voyage.
Jennyxx
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